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Therapy for Depression & Emotional Numbness in Houston

You may still be working, parenting, socializing, and getting through the day, but something feels missing. Maybe you feel numb, disconnected, exhausted, or like you’re watching your life happen from a distance.

At Rooted Therapy, we help adults work through depression, emotional numbness, disconnection, loss of motivation, and that persistent “what’s the point?” feeling using EMDR, IFS, somatic therapy, and other approaches that go beyond simply trying to think more positively.

✓ In-person in Houston (Montrose)
✓ Virtual throughout Texas
✓ Free 15-minute consultation

You’re going through the motions, but nothing really lands.

You wake up, get dressed, answer emails, say the right things. From the outside, you seem fine. But inside? You feel flat. Numb. Disconnected from your own life.

You used to care. Now everything feels muted, as if you’re watching your life happen from a distance. You still show up for work, for friends, for family… but it takes everything you’ve got. You’re checking all the boxes, but it never quite feels like enough.

You wonder: Why do I feel this way? What’s wrong with me? Shouldn’t I be grateful?

This is what high-functioning depression can look like. It’s quiet. It hides behind achievement, independence, and the phrase “I’m just tired.”

And the fact that you’re here, noticing this disconnection, matters more than you think.

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It’s not laziness. It’s not weakness. And you’re not broken.

At Rooted Therapy, we work with adults who feel stuck in a fog of emptiness, disconnection, or hopelessness even if they’re “doing everything right.”

Depression isn’t always about sadness. More often, it’s about disconnection from your emotions, your body, and your purpose. It’s the internal shutdown that happens when you’ve been carrying too much, too quietly, for too long.

Work with someone you connect with

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    Lauren Palmer

    MA, LPC · Practice Owner

    WHO SHE WORKS WITH

    Works with thoughtful, high-functioning adults who understand themselves pretty well but still feel stuck in anxiety, perfectionism, trauma, or painful relationship patterns.

    FOCUS AREAS

    High-Functioning Anxiety
    Trauma & Attachment
    Perfectionism
    Relationship Patterns
    Burnout & Disconnection

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    Alyssa Garcia

    MS, LPC-Associate, Bilingual English/Spanish

    WHO SHE WORKS WITH

    Works with adults and couples navigating grief, relationship changes, and the tension between family or cultural expectations and figuring out what feels true to them.

    FOCUS AREAS

    Grief & Loss
    Trauma & EMDR
    Family, Culture & Belonging
    Relationships & Attachment
    Life Transitions & Identity

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    Chloe Espenan

    LMSW

    WHO SHE WORKS WITH

    Works with adults, couples, and teens (13+) navigating depression, codependency, substance use, complicated relationships with food, and coping patterns that aren’t working anymore.

    FOCUS AREAS

    Depression
    Codependency
    Substance Use & Process Addictions
    Disordered Eating Patterns
    Anxiety & Self-Criticism

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    Michelle Saltzer

    MA, LPC-Associate

    WHO SHE WORKS WITH

    Works with adults and couples who overthink, people-please, avoid conflict, and struggle to say what they need, especially in their closest relationships.

    FOCUS AREAS

    Anxiety
    People-Pleasing
    Self-Criticism
    Relationships
    Fertility, Perinatal & Postpartum
    Couples Therapy

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    Lauren Bigelow

    LMSW

    WHO SHE WORKS WITH

    Works with adults and couples navigating burnout, grief, neurodivergence, chronic illness, and the exhaustion of being the person everyone else relies on.

    FOCUS AREAS

    Neurodivergence
    Chronic Illness
    Grief & Loss
    Burnout & Caregiver Fatigue
    Anxiety & Perfectionism
    Perimenopause

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    Haley Macek

    MS, LPC-Associate

    WHO SHE WORKS WITH

    Works with adults, teens (13+), and couples who feel disconnected from themselves, stuck in painful relationships, or exhausted from trying to be who everyone expects them to be.

    FOCUS AREAS

    Anxiety & Depression
    Trauma
    Relationships & Attachment
    LGBTQIA+ Identity & Belonging
    Support After Sexual or Domestic Violence

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    Sana Maaz

    MA, LMFT-Associate

    WHO SHE WORKS WITH

    Works with adults and couples feeling lost, disconnected, or unsure of who they are anymore, especially in the aftermath of trauma, anxiety, or major life change.

    FOCUS AREAS

    Trauma & Attachment
    Anxiety
    Couples & Relationship Patterns
    Cultural Identity
    Life Transitions
    Self-Discovery & Identity Shifts


SUPPORT BEYOND SYMPTOM MANAGEMENT

Here’s what support can look like

We use a trauma-informed, relational approach that integrates ACT, IFS, existential, and somatic therapy to help you:

  • Understand where the emotional shutdown is coming from, so you stop blaming yourself for something that once helped you survive.

  • Reconnect with feelings that have gone underground at a pace that doesn’t overwhelm your system.

  • Work through self-blame, shame, or internal criticism

  • Explore unmet needs that never had space before

  • Find small, sustainable ways to move toward aliveness again. Not pressure to “feel better” but more moments that feel real.

What you won’t find in our practice is toxic positivity or forcing a better mood. We’re about giving space to the parts of you that are still here even if they feel far away right now.

Start with a free 15-minute consultation

Tell us a little about what’s bringing you in. We’ll help you think through fit and next steps.

If therapy hasn’t helped before:

Many of our clients have tried therapy where they learned coping skills but still felt empty, disconnected, or unchanged.

This work goes deeper into the patterns, protective strategies, and nervous system responses that keep you functioning but disconnected. We don’t rush insight or push positivity. We work at the level where real change happens.

There’s more waiting for you than just getting by.

You don’t have to keep pretending you’re okay, and you don’t have to wait until you hit rock bottom to get support.

If you’re feeling disconnected, numb, or like you’re losing yourself, therapy can help you find your way back.

Schedule a free consultation for depression therapy in Houston or virtually throughout Texas. Let’s find what feels alive again.

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    Internal Family Systems (IFS)

    Explore how IFS helps you heal by getting to know all parts of yourself.

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    Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

    Learn how EMDR supports deep, lasting emotional shifts.

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    Somatic Therapy

    Learn how somatic therapy supports nervous system regulation and emotional release.

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    Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

    When control isn’t working, ACT offers a different path forward.

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    Existential Therapy

    Explore the deeper questions—meaning, identity, freedom, and what it all adds up to.

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    Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

    Helping couples and individuals understand and transform the patterns that keep them stuck, so they can feel safer, more connected, and more understood in their relationships.

From the Rooted Therapy Blog