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Therapy for Relational & Attachment Trauma in Houston

If relationships leave you anxious, shut down, constantly overthinking, or waiting for the other shoe to drop, we see you. These are signs that your nervous system adapted to experiences where connection didn't consistently feel safe.

At Rooted Therapy, we help adults heal from childhood emotional neglect, complex trauma (C-PTSD), relationship trauma, and attachment wounds using EMDR, IFS, somatic therapy, and other evidence-based approaches that go beyond insight alone.

✓ In-person in Houston (Montrose)
✓ Virtual throughout Texas
✓ Free 15-minute consultation

Trauma doesn't always look like trauma.

Sometimes it looks like...

  • Flinching at someone's tone of voice.

  • Replaying conversations for hours afterward.

  • Feeling responsible for everyone else's emotions.

  • Shutting down during conflict.

  • Never asking for help because it feels safer not to need anyone.

  • Wondering if you're "too sensitive."

  • Assuming people are upset with you.

  • Feeling exhausted by relationships, even the healthy ones.

Many of the people we work with don't immediately identify with the word trauma. They just know their reactions feel bigger than the moment, and they're tired of living that way.

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Your nervous system remembers.

At Rooted Therapy, we don't see anxiety, shutdown, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or overthinking as personality flaws.

We see them as survival strategies. Trauma isn't just what happened to you. It's what happened inside your nervous system because of what happened to you.

Your brain adapted. Your body adapted. Your relationships adapted.

Those patterns probably helped you survive. They just aren't helping you anymore.

Talking about it isn’t always enough.

Many of our clients have already done years of therapy.

They've read the books.

Listened to the podcasts.

They can explain exactly why they react the way they do.

Understanding your patterns isn't the same thing as changing them.

That's why our work goes beyond insight.

We help your nervous system experience something different.

Depending on your goals, therapy might include:

EMDR

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Somatic therapy

Attachment-focused therapy

Not because one approach is "best." Because healing isn't one-size-fits-all.

Meet your therapist

Lauren Palmer

Sana Maaz

Haley Diaz

Lauren Bigelow

Michelle Saltzer

Is trauma therapy right for me?

You don't have to "have it worse" than someone else.

If your past still shows up in your relationships, emotions, or nervous system today, trauma therapy may help.

Whether you experienced childhood emotional neglect, relationship trauma, emotional abuse, complex trauma, or simply grew up without feeling emotionally safe, your experiences matter.

Trauma Therapy FAQs

Still wondering whether this is the right fit? Here are a few questions we hear most often.

You’ve survived enough.

You don't have to spend the rest of your life bracing for the next disappointment, overthinking every interaction, or wondering why your reactions feel so much bigger than the moment.

Those patterns made sense once.

They don't have to keep running your life.

At Rooted Therapy, we help adults heal from attachment wounds, childhood emotional neglect, relationship trauma, and complex PTSD using approaches that go beyond insight alone, so you can finally begin to feel the shift, not just understand it.

Your consultation is free, lasts about 15 minutes, and there's no pressure to move forward. We'll simply help you decide whether we're the right fit.

✓ In-person in Houston (Montrose)

✓ Virtual throughout Texas

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