If you and your partner keep having the same argument, it’s probably not really about dishes. Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) helps couples uncover what’s beneath the conflict: the fear, longing, and disconnection that keep you stuck. Learn how EFT couples therapy in Houston can help you feel closer and more understood.

Most relationships don’t break all at once. Instead, they fade in small, quiet ways. This post explores how to recognize those early moments of disconnection and how couples therapy can help you understand what’s really happening underneath.

Parenting doesn’t happen in a vacuum, it happens in the body you’ve carried your whole life. If you grew up with trauma, your child’s needs can stir old survival responses you didn’t even know were still there. This isn’t proof you’re failing; it’s proof your nervous system is asking for healing.

Most of us spend our lives trying to manage our nervous systems by calming down, pushing through, staying “regulated.” But the body already knows what to do if we stop getting in the way. This post explores what happens when we let the nervous system complete its natural rhythm: how it protects, releases, and restores itself when given space to do its job.

Chronic pain isn’t just about the body. For many, it carries the imprint of past trauma: shaping tension, breath, and even how safe it feels to rest. Healing doesn’t always mean erasing pain; sometimes it means building a new relationship with your body, one where safety and connection are finally possible.

If you’re debating whether to reach out, here are some of the most common signs that it’s time even if you’re still having doubts.

You’ve probably seen the posts: “Are you anxious, avoidant, or secure?” It’s catchy, it’s clickable, and it scratches the ever-so-human itch of wanting to understand yourself in one neat label. But here’s the thing: attachment isn’t a Buzzfeed quiz result. It’s a living, breathing pattern that shifts depending on the context you’re in.

Every September, I notice a familiar pattern in my practice: more emails, more phone calls, more people deciding this is the moment to finally start therapy.

Looking for trauma therapy in Houston can feel overwhelming. There are so many options, and not all are the right fit. In this post, we’ll cut through the noise and talk about what actually matters when choosing a trauma therapist in Montrose or the greater Houston area (and the red flags you’ll want to avoid along the way).

Most advice about sleep treats it like a simple habit. Go to bed at the same time, cut the caffeine, put away your phone. While those things can help, they leave out something crucial: sleep is one of the most vulnerable states we enter as humans.

Most people expect a rush of relief or satisfaction after they finally reach a long-awaited goal. When milestones like graduation, a promotion, finishing the marathon, or passing the exam come along, you imagine yourself celebrating, proud, or maybe even transformed.

You can name the emotion and trace it back to the moment it started. You might even know exactly which childhood experience planted the seed. And yet… nothing changes.

If this sounds familiar, you’re probably no stranger to over-analyzing your feelings, a habit that can feel productive, even therapeutic, but often leaves you stuck in the same emotional loop.

You’ve found someone kinds who listens to you and treats you with respect. And yet, your body doesn’t seem to believe it. Instead, your body buzzes with anxiety: feeling jumpy when they walk into the room unexpectedly, pulling back when they reach for your hand. You can’t quite relax, even when you logically know there’s no sign of danger.

Struggling to communicate with an emotionally immature parent? Learn why your conversations may go nowhere and how to set boundaries that protect your peace and support your healing.

If you’ve ever felt confused, disconnected, or even irritated by that phrase, you’re not alone. Many people—especially those who’ve experienced trauma, chronic stress, or simply grown up in a culture that values thinking over feeling—find the idea of “being in your body” abstract at best and overwhelming at worst.

Ever found yourself going completely blank during a heated conversation?

You’re in the middle of an argument and your mind fogs over, your chest tightens, or suddenly you completely lose track of what you wanted to say.  This isn’t just a matter of being “bad at communicating”, it’s a trauma response that deserves attention.

Trauma has a profound impact on the brain. It can leave individuals feeling stuck, emotionally overwhelmed, and disconnected from their sense of safety. However, a groundbreaking therapeutic approach known as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is changing the way we understand trauma recovery. EMDR doesn’t just help individuals process difficult memories—it actually works to rewire the brain.

For many high-functioning adults, work isn't just something you do — it's who you are.

You don’t just have a job. You are the doctor. The founder. The reliable team lead. The problem solver.
And over time, it can become difficult to separate your identity from your role — until the job ends, changes, or drains you so completely that you’re left wondering, Who am I without it?

When a natural disaster hits—like the recent flooding across parts of Texas—the damage isn’t just physical. Even if your home is safe or your family wasn’t directly impacted, kids may still absorb the emotional weight of what’s happening around them. They hear adult conversations. They pick up on fear. They see images on the news or TikTok that they don’t fully understand.

And yet, many parents feel unsure about what to say.
How much is too much? Should I protect them from the details? What if I don’t have the right words?

Many adults enter therapy having never had an emotionally attuned caregiver. Parents may have been physically present but emotionally unavailable, unpredictable, or wrapped up in their own survival. In these environments, you learn to stay quiet, stay helpful, or stay strong—but not how to stay connected to yourself.